Nov 24 2008
Sometimes you need to let go
Yesterday, my friends invited me to watch the movie “Twilight”. We thought that movie was more actions than romantic scenes. In contrary, it is such a teen romantic movie. A vampire falls in love with a regular human girl. He couldn’t make her to become vampire because he loves her so much. Otherwise, they can be immortal together, forever. Love sometimes have to learn to let go, I guess that is what he meant about it.
In our real life, love has to let go too+ sometimes, for the sake of love. There is a girl I love for while. I tried express my love to her a couple of times, at the end, it was a disaster. I failed so miserably. She treated me as one of her best friend, since I help her a lot. Maybe a cultural difference is the biggest barrier. She hardly understood my point of view on discussion, and sometimes, I have hard time communicate with her. Somehow, I still like her beyond all the stuff. I can sacrifice my time, and my stigma on helping her out on everything. At the end, I guess that I love her, that’s why I won’t calculate the reward I should get.
I understand that even I forced her to marry her, she won’t get her happiness, and she won’t be smiling like now. She is more talkative with her friends than I do, because it will be more easier for her to communicate with them. For me, she can tell me everything, but the vibe I felt, she is not that talkative around me. Somehow, I think that, I should let her go. She will be more happier I guess, around her friends, her similar being. I didn’t let go, because without her, I felt that I will be missing her a lot.
After I saw “Twilight”, love has to let go sometimes. When it is right for you, you have to make your own sacrifice. Although it is painful for you, you have to make that decision.
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