Nov 19 2008
Do we all have jealousy?
I felt jealousy all the time, am I too insecure? I really don’t know. Sometimes, I see the person I like talking to another male figure, I felt jealous. I doubt that was he hitting on her, or will she interest in him? There is another possibility, she and him probably just friends, nothing biggie. Romantic jealousy is the most common type among all of us. What else the provoke our jealousy.
If you have a brother or sister, who do you think that you parents love more? Either you or your sibling. Sometimes, if you parents love your sibling more than you, you might feel jealous. There is hard to distinguish what is fair or equal distributed love. I have to admit. Sometimes, my grandparents love my uncle more than my father. In contrast, my father wasn’t care about all these. They are still his parents, and he has to love them, even though they love him less than my uncle.
At work, there is one girl I really like. Recently she talk to me less, and she rather talk to other co - workers more. She seems happy with it, and she might totally ignore my existence sometimes. I felt jealous. Sometimes, she flirted with a friend of mine at work, and I was around too. There is nothing I can do about it. I just sat there, pretended that I didn’t hear anything at all. Even worse, I tried to walk away. Am I not gentleman enough? Or she did these because she wanted to make me jealous? Hard to tell from woman’s perspective.
If you work at a job, and you did a pretty decent work. But still, your boss, and other co - workers compliment the other more than you, will you feel jealous? One of your co - workers who can making big jokes, but not much contribute to the job. In addition, more people like him than you, what do you think of it? I guess, sometimes, you have to be a clown around people, so they like you more. Or you have to act funny, less boring, so people have great impression on you.
Can we all rid of jealousy? I am trying, trying not to jealous. I am also trying not to know anything around me, focus on myself, and my work. Hard to do it, and easy to say.
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Jealousy is rough. I myself am a VERY jealous person. It’s hard to contain sometimes, but I’m rather territorial. I think a lot of people are this way.