themeltingpot

I believe love is mutual, between two persons affection toward each other. When both person love each other good enough, they might develop to the next stage, getting married, and start a family together. While one - sided love just doesn’t work at all. One person loves the another, while another one doesn’t have the same affection toward the one who tried to love. It just a vague attempt in my perspective.

From my experience, I had tried to love a girl before when I was in middle school. At the end, I just knew that I was just one - sided love. She never saw me the same way I see her. She was in my class, and she was the most beautiful girl in my school then. I had chances sit next to her, and had opportunities sitting next to her and close to her. I had tried to make more than friends attempt, but she seems not care or didn’t want to know. At the end, I only discovered she had interest in my friend rather than me. She only see him in her eye. No matter how hard I work to get her attention. I was just invisible, not worth a glimpse from her eyes.

A friend of mine, she has a boyfriend who loves her for 3 years. I knew that her boyfriend will do anything for her, and he should be the one for her. After some period of time, her affection toward him seems faded. She no longer care about him, and she started seeing other people. Once she was trying to break up with him. He made a bold move, he proposed to her, and bought a $5,000 engagement ring for her in hope of change her mind. Although her family hopes that she will pick him rather than another guy, she might not love him the same as before. Once we were discussing. Whether buying an expensive ring means love can be exchangeable? If you don’t love him anymore, even you spend all these money, it won’t capture her heart anymore. If you love a person, there is no condition or deal to be strike. It might just be one -sided love.

Some wise people giving me an advise once. If someone really loves you, they only see you. Even you driving a crappy car, they still love you. Money only buy things, and feeling is not a product. Pick the one who loves you, not to force the make love to be yours.

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