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A good friend of mine, also got divorce recently. What a sad news again, what in the world, is wrong with those women. He was one of my friends that grow up with me. We went to middle school together, and we been good friends ever since, and we kept in contact, calling each other. I still remember when he got married, his wife was pregnant. The rumor spread out fast, and I guess it is a mandatory option for him to marry her.

After a few months, he told me that he has baby girl. He invited me to join his baby shower party, I didn’t go, because so many people there I didn’t know them. It would be a boring party to me. Afterward, I guess that we were both busy, and we seldomly contacted each other. 3 years later, one day, he called me that his wife just left him. I was shocked, and feel horrible for him. I asked him why, he told me that he didn’t even know. So, me and my another friend invited him over my area, we were trying to cheer him up.

He told me that he couldn’t sleep, eat and work. He felt hurt and confused. He described that to me, he was on vacation with his friends to Vietnam for 2 months. After he came back, his wife, one day, told him that she won’t love him anymore. She took their daughter with her, and her belongings out of the door. He tried to convince her, and want her to stay, her only answer is that she won’t come back. We were speechless, and couldn’t find the right word to comfort him. Hopefully he will get over it someday.

Later on, he found out that she has another man, so she was in an affair. He shouldn’t be sad for her for her unfaithfulness. Sometimes I just couldn’t understand, what women really need in reality. A fancy life, and a comfortable home never been enough. There is always more and more. There is always comparison between your man and somebody else’s man. Life isn’t easy enough, and all we can do is to do the best we can to provide. Sometimes, love is mysterious. Can we really find the love one in our lifetime? The one you will never betray, the one you will love for the rest of your life. Nothing more, she sees you and love you that moment. No regret, she loves you the way who you are. Our civilization was filled with too much materialism and deceit. We were changed forever.

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