themeltingpot

A friend of mine, just told me a story about this girl he met. He fell in love with her for almost 3 years, and recently found out, she never has the same feeling toward him, as he does for her. He was heartbroken, and he ask my advice on what he should do about it. I felt sympathy, and the same time, I felt angry for him being used.

Three years ago, he went with a couple of his friends to a Mexican Night Club, Where you have to pay $5 for the girl dancing with you. He was amateur and curious. Once he saw this girl stand alone on the floor, he braved himself, and ask the girl to dance with him for $5. Afterward, he begged his friends to bring him to that night club every Saturday night. He was attempting to see the girl, and find an opportunity to get to know her. After many months, they get to know each other pretty well, but everything is base on money, I guess.

One day, she called him, and ask him if he interested in going to see movie with her. He was jumping up and down. They met, but they didn’t watch movie, instead, they went to the mall and doing the shopping. He voluntarily pay for her every item, because he thought that it will show his generosity. He was wrong. That was his first date. Afterward, she contact him again. Most of the time, they agree to go shopping, and he paid most of the time. Sometimes, she brought along her sisters and her friends. Although they develop a bond on this fake relationship, he still willing to spend money on her. What a shame. Sometimes, he even lend her money, which she never pay him back.

Once her friend asked him, whether you have a girlfriend or not. He was confused, she suppose told her that he is her boyfriend, why her friend still asking this type of question? Things gone wrong on this phase. Later, she asked him if he can married her, and she agreed to pay him some money for the Green Card. Things gone wrong on second phase. He was convinced that he can melt her heart, and someday she will fell in love with him. He was a fool, I guess.

Until 2 days ago, he helped her to search a new auto insurance. She asked him again, if she can pay him some money to marry her. He told her that he won’t do it for money, he rather do it for love. She asked him again, if he has any friend will agree to do that. Then he realized that she never love him, ever once. He was totally waking up. He wasted all his time and money for her, just for nothing.

As a friend, I told him. Leave her, and never contact her again. She was using you the whole time, the money you spend on her, you can get yourself a nice car. Why still falling yourself to a trap? See it yourself, and wake up.

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