themeltingpot

What really attracts women? A studious, nerdy type of person definitely not going to work, according to most teenage movies nowadays. Cheerleaders always attracted to football player jocks, because of their sporty, popularity in schools, and muscular body - built? Those scenarios are too cliche and boring. From what I heard and see, these scenarios can be applied in our real daily live. Some girls do love to stuck with losers, especially those who have no jobs, no ambition, and brain. But with violence temper, drinking habits and all those bad - boy characteristics do attract a lot of women’s attention.

A few years ago, a friend of mine and I went to a strip joint in Atlanta. There was a dancer who was combined both beauty of American and Hispanic. I had a chance to have her dance for me then. After a couple of dances, we sat down and chat a little. I was curious why such a pretty girl would like to dance here, couldn’t she find a decent job anywhere else? She told me that she was living with her boyfriend together, and they have 2 kids together. They have financial difficulties recently, and her boyfriend wasn’t willing to work and get a job to support the family. All he did was smoking “weed” and sitting home do nothing. One day, he asked her to go dance, so she can make some money. She was unacceptable on the first reaction, later she thought about it, she thought through it. I was speechless. I thought to myself, would a man like that really care about her, or love her a bit? Although she can make really good money on dancing. She later told me that she couldn’t leave him, because she has two babies with him. What a lucky “loser”.

Another case I heard from a friend of mine. Her name is Roxio, a mexican woman with beauty too. She has 4 babies, and she is at her 28. Her boyfriend, not her husband, they were never officially married in the States, treated her like a punching bag. Once in a restaurant, she showed me her bruises on the cell phone. She told me the story of how her boyfriend treated her. He was a construction worker, and he was on drug and bad drinking habit. One time, she found out that he has another woman, she had a big fight with him. He didn’t remorse of what he did, instead, he got drunk, and beat her up really bad. He punched her nose, and she has to sent to hospital. The man was sent to jail for domestic violence. What a tragedy.

Also, there is a case I heard from my girlfriend. A friend of her, good looking girl and who is also a mexican, has 4 kids. A few years ago, her father was pass away in California. She has to cross the border to see her father’s body. She was with her kids and she was pregnant. She has a husband who working in the States also. One day, her husband called her, that he won’t be able to see her in the future, because he has another woman here. She was shocked, and helpless. Plus she didn’t have any money with her then. She moved to Atlanta, GA here. She re-married to another Mexican, same tragedy occurred, the man was a total “Loser”, he drunk and he was violent. Punch her whenever he has bad temper. She was crying with her sob stories.

I still can’t understand, why majority of pretty girls love to stuck with a loser, is it the animan attraction of them that attracts those girls. Human nature are uncomprehensible sometimes.